keep going!

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Keep going? yes keep going! many of the obstacles that are in your way are there to make you stronger! the people that get in your way are a test for you! will you fall back into old patterns? or will you keep going? these situations  arise so you can look at yourself! at some unresolved issued that are hidden! i have had a couple of clients this week who are dealing with similar issues, people standing in their way. or is it just a reflection of what needs to be healed? the biggest issue i found in my life in the past was certain people who were not comfortable with the path i had chosen for myself, or should i say the path that chose me? i have to say this was the most difficult lesson in my life to face, i wanted everyone to understand my path and be okay with it.what i came to realize is that would never happen, and it was a underlying message for me, the lesson was that i needed to be comfortable on my path, and those people would fall off or just not irritate  me any longer.you see when you believe in yourself,and in your path, no one can stand in the way. these kind of people stopped showing up in my life, because i strengthened myself. what i came to realize is when a person is so against you in your beliefs its because they are insecure in their own beliefs. its projection at its best!  so if this is something you deal with, know the work is on you! isn't it always! be secure in yourself! at it all falls into place, its a process like anything. love and accept yourself and you will love and accept the world.

why does my son have autism?

I asked myself this very question when my own son Jonathon was diagnosed with autism 7 years ago. This was a very difficult thing to understand at the time for me and my husband, i often have clients who come to me with this question. at first for me i viewed this as a tragic thing, i felt sorry for myself. i wondered why god had given me a child who would suffer in this world, who was different from the rest. i was angry , i wanted to protect my son. i didn't want him to suffer.we tried everything we could, every therapy that was available, we fought for the best services and read every book we could get our hands on, we would do anything to try to help jonny  to not be viewed as different in this world. Jonathon was miserable, and so was i. one day it just hit me, i needed to accept  him for who he was. there were many underlying lessons in this for me, but i will say once i came to this realization many doors opened for me and Jonathon, life became a joy,my career took off and jonny was beginning to thrive. we come here with a chart, i know i signed up for this with my son. i learn something  new everyday through the eyes of this incredible child.He is my teacher, my inspiration, i would not change a thing, not even the dark days,for they have given me incredible insight and wisdom along my path.my child has autism, and he is the greatest gift god has ever given me. www.yourangelcoach.com

Is God ignoring Me!

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Often i get this question from my clients.....why are my prayers not being answered? i have been asking god over and over for a new job, for a new house? but i never get what i want? why? or i just do not get any answers? is god ignoring me? god always answers us...no exceptions. you are guided in the direction of your higher good, always. pay attention, spirit is always talking with you in many ways. mostly through our bodies.for instance, your in a job you hate, you stay out of fear...but you keep saying your confused about the guidance that you are receiving? you hate your job, everyday it gets harder and harder to go there. you get headaches, your miserable...what is your body trying to tell you? this is where people get lost in there fear. its god knocking on your door, this is where real courage is required on your journey.....faith, having faith, surrender your need to have things workout to your agenda.it will make you miserable, this is how you acquire wisdom on your path! trusting in the process of life. divine design....surrender

whats your story....

Today i met with a new client, this first thing she said to me was , hello i am divorced for 7 years. then she proceeded to tell me her husband cheated on her. , i know these things are not pleasant and i am not making light of these experiences .when a client first words to me  are" i am divorced ", i am depressed! i know this is a story they tell. its their identity. its a part of there life, they do not want to let go of. a badge of honor. she proceeded to let me know she was abused as a child as well. the pattern is very clear to me. she wants to know how she can be happy? why am i so miserable? why can t i find happiness? i think alot of people do not even know they are doing this to themselves...we live in a victim  base society. its socially excepted to be the victim, in fact it sells newspapers and keeps rating up on the evening news! its comfort for certain people. telling the same story and being the victim will surely rob you of your life. its almost like staying in the pain and keep reliving this awful time in your life over and over...whats the pay off? the past is the past, we can not be happy and create a future worth living if we keep living in the past. living in the past keeps us stuck....why do some people stay in there pain? fear....whats your story?www.yourangelcoach.com